The Letters
Dear Daughters, God Is Not Waiting for You to Fail
For years, I understood justification by faith alone in my head but struggled to rest in God's grace. Reading Bryan Chapell's Holiness by Grace helped me see how fear, guilt, and shame can distort our understanding of the Christian life. This letter to my daughters is about learning to obey God out of love rather than living as though He's waiting for us to fail.
Dear H, Some Things Matter More Than Hair
What started as a fun morning flying a toy drone ended with its blades tangled in Momma's hair and one very frightened little girl. In this letter, I reflect on a lesson our family learned about controlling anger, owning our mistakes, and extending grace to one another.
Dear Daughters, Why I Asked You to Wait
Every day when I finished work, my daughters would rush to greet me, eager for my attention. But sometimes, I asked them to wait so I could talk to Momma first. In this letter, I explain why protecting my marriage was also an important part of caring for our family.